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Would you like to share your story of relational aggression with The Ophelia Project? We want to hear from you - whatever your perspective. Aggressors, targets, and kids in the middle; everyone has a story to share. You are not alone!

Males and females experience relational aggression in many different ways: at school, online or in the workplace. Where does relational aggression happen in your life? If you had a bad experience, how did you make it right?

Please fill in the form completely and accurately. Your story can serve as an inspiration for others, and we appreciate the opportunity to further discuss it by contacting you directly. Your anonymity and the anonymity of the individuals in your story will always be protected.

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